By Charles C. Opara
The truth is that no guy really want to be rejected after telling a girl that he falls in love with her, but only a very few actually get it as expected without much delay. So if you’re scare of rejection from the woman you love to date, be in relationship with and possibly marry her, what you’re about to read here now will definitely help you to get the positive response you most desire from here.
As scaring as it look like, it is actually getting the girl to love you and fall in love with you too is where you’ll need to do the hard work.
If you like a girl, don’t just ask her out immediately, 99% of guys who do such always get rejection from the girl, because the best defenses women have is to give “no” for an answer, that’s very sure. It puts them on a safer side because much is not known about you and they can’t entrust their heart into a stranger’s hand.
Try to be her special friend and gradually enter into her heart
Just being her friend alone cannot protect you from getting the awkward rejection but being her special friend will let you get closer to her heart and gradually, you can begin to enter into her heart as you begin to build rapport through the special friendship you both shared.
Being her special friend will require spending quality time with her, when she need a hand, your hand is always there to lift her up, have fun and exciting conversation with her.
But don’t get stuck into the friendship zone, which mean you should avoid being her best friend instead of her lover with special friend ability.
Lookout for reciprocal gesture from her
At times, some girls get carried away with friendship characteristic and enjoy every moment they share, without even thinking of developing interest in their friends. If you’re just the only one calling, texting, doing all the visit, and she does not bother about it. Then you’ll need to think twice if she will be actually interested when you will tell her you’re falling in love with her.
One of the best ways to gauge her interest is to allow her to miss you or cut down the number of calls or texts you’re sending her for sometimes, like 2 to 4 days and observe if she didn’t bother to call you and find out what is really happening to you.
If she does call you, it then means she is interested in you and has really missed you but if she doesn’t call you, she’s having no interest in you and you shouldn’t bother yourself to tell her about how you feel.
Flirt with her and talk late into the night
Being a special friend will also require you to flirt with her to get even closer to her heart. Also talk late into the night with her, and one great benefit you’re going to get when you engage her with conversation into the night is that, you have the opportunity of asking her personal questions, that period is the period when she feels relax on her bed and not think much about anything except probably you at that time
Relationship love at times can be confusing when you get to a certain stage of your love life; you will begin to wonder if the relationship you’re into really worth it. You will come to think of it that does this guy really mean this love and question like this will want to help you to know where exactly you’re standing in his life. There are signs that show if your boyfriends truly love you and these signs are all you need to know to really access the kind of love he is showing you.
When you first got into relationship, issues like this, don’t even come to your mind really but as time goes on, even if it is infatuated kind love it get fade away and seems to be true love can set in but you need to be sure of your position in his life, you wouldn’t want to waste your life and time with someone who doesn’t have a future with you. The earlier you know these signs that show if your boyfriend truly love you the better.
Feeling insecure sometimes is a part of experiencing love, it’s normal and at times all of us feel it now and then. But what matters is what your lover does to reassure you, and make you feel more loved that will build your confident level toward your relationship.
Take a look at these 12 signs that show if your boyfriend truly love you and make your decision on where exactly is your position in his life and this will help you to get more focus as to concentrate on the love or move on to secure a better relationship that has something positive to offer you.
Signs that show if your boyfriend truly love you
- Communication: If your guy really loves you, he will want to communicate with you at every point in time no matter what. He will talk more often to you than any other person in his life; even his friends will receive much less communication than he talks to you.
- He gets captivated by you: Have you ever caught him in the act staring at you when you’re busy doing something else? It’s a sure sign that he really love you and he wants to get more of you and can’t wait till you’re free.
- He can go all the way for you: if a man truly loves you, he can do all things for you to make you happy at all time even if it’s something he does not enjoy doing ordinarily. He can even go all the way with you to the market and help you in your shopping.
- Together time matters to him: A guy will go all the way to look for how he can spend more time with you than any other person in his life, spending time with his best friends or family will surely take a back seat and the time he’ll be spending with you will take the front seat.
- The impression Continue: The impression he gave you that won you over will not stop after you’ve become his girlfriend, he will continue to make it happen again and again and even extend it to your family members as well.
- He Love’s hugging you: He will hug you for no reason at all and hold you more than a few second thanking you for being part of his life though he may not open his mouth to say this but right there in his mind is making the statement.
- Your thoughts always on his mind: He can’t stop thinking of you always because he has you as top priority in his life. For you to know this, call on his attention at times when you know he will be busy doing something elsewhere to come to assist you in sorting something out, he will go all the way to come around and help you out.
- He flaunts you: Because he love you, he can talk about in front of any damsel that he knew before and make you proud because he is sure of his love for you, something guys who don’t really love you cannot do.
- He let out his secrets: He will share with you the secret he has never share with anyone before, the secret that he’s afraid of telling his friends so that he will not be mocked. He will be opened to let you know those secrets because he trust and love you.
- He is not judgmental: He will not scold you even if you’ve done something wrong, he will just let you understand in a friendly manner what you have done and at times he may even try to pull your leg but is just to make fun of it.
- He will change his world: If a guy truly loves you, he won’t mind changing his lifestyle all because of you, he can miss a crucial game of football that even you yourself know very well that he loves. He can as well miss a movie he wants to watch and put you first to attend to your need before his.